Beware of: Fake ‘high status’ People

The world is overrun with a ‘certain’ breed of people. I’ll refer to them as ‘fake high status people’. These mostly exist in large metropolitan areas with a high per capital income or they can exist in smaller towns and neighbourhoods. If they are the way they are because of lack of direction and leadership, I am here to set the record straight. God and I don’t like these type of people because they are all smoke and mirrors. Exception is in the workplace where we must be our professional fake selfs. Materialistic cities like Hong Kong are overrun with them.

Fake high status people have the following characteristics:

  • Masters at setting perceptions of how they will appear to others
  • Obesessed with social status or anything similar that reeks of materialism
  • Will say their schedule is booked full when in reality it is not 
  • Leads self with pride and greed instead of serving God
  • Not afraid to call other people out but shocked when others call them out
  • Obsessed with showing up as high value in the “physical world” where it doesn’t matter and truly low value in God’s eyes
  • Key is this: high status in the human world is all fake. You’ve got to work on your souls.

Society is exacerbated when they exhibit the additional following traits:

  • Act and think like they are better than others
  • Expects you to serve them or do things for them when they haven’t much to offer 
  • Like to ‘use’ other people 
  • Exploit others’ vulnerabilities and weaknesses for their own selfish gains

Granted, no one is perfect. We all exhibit some of these from time to time. If any of these sounds BAU, I urge you to confess and ask God for forgiveness! Work on your souls; rather than material possessions and power.

Remember: soul excellence over material excellence.   

Throwback to Chabad House of Tokyo Japan in 2013. What a great trip!

(Just a bit past) Mid-Year Update from allofasuddenpartJew

Wow, it’s already September (here in Hong Kong)! The summer is almost gone, just 2 more months of scorching humidity.

The theme for my first half of 2015 is Personal Growth. We never stop evolving–like everything that’s created in this universe. Change is a constant of life and we should all embrace a change for the better.

My job at a big finance firm has kept me very busy. It is the training ground for the next step in my purpose – changing the world. I can’t go into specific details but it is a dress rehearsal on a smaller scale of ‘the assignment’ for the Higher Being. 

Life is going great😄. I’ve picked up a few new hobbies that is getting regular practice — namely horseback riding, baking and flower arrangement. I find all three incredibly relaxing and gives a powerful connection to nature and surroundings. 

From a spritual perspective, I feel my soul quality is improving. Growing closer and closer to God, his direction and his protection. I can feel and see the change and am very grateful for it. 🙏

Ultimately, we all know where this is leading — the acknowledgement of truth of life and humanity. This is waiting for us and should complete within 5-7 years. Please stay tuned and I thank you for your continued support.


2014: What A Year of New Discoveries and Projects

It’s year end again and time for my annual year in review blog post.

2014 was the Chinese Year of the Horse. What was I up to in my Jewish life? Let’s see….

Major accomplishments include:

  • Graduated from my Master of Arts in Chinese Studies Program
  • Partnered with the Schusterman Family Foundation on a Chinese and Jewish friendship event
  • Realized my future path is not in NYC with Tikvah Fellowship but more banking in Hong Kong
  • Kicking off my “Help Chinese realize the Chinese Dream” project by allofasuddenpartJew

God is preparing me for a future battle with many ups and downs. I see all the signs…don’t you?

2015 will be an exciting year — I already see challenges in my day-to-day job that will prep me for “other things”.

See you in 2015!



China: You have a lot of Problems…Let’s focus on the Solutions

Last week I spent a majority of my time researching into “China’s biggest problems”. I put this in quotes because everyone has an opinion on this topic, mostly Western media with a big opinion on what’s going on in the Eastern giant — soon to be world superpower.

A google search came back with hundreds if not thousands of articles, blogs and op-eds on this subject. For example, Martin Feldstein’s WSJ piece on China’s Biggest Problems are Political, Not Economic, he lists corruption, skewed birth rates, and gross inequality as his top three China killers. The Diplomat says it even better in the piece China’s Greatest Challenge: Not America, But Itself. Again, its own social issues and home politics are named as the future deal breakers. I won’t list the other articles that came up, but they all reiterate the same voice and subject. China has major internal issues it must address first, before it can become a world superpower — one that other countries will emulate and follow.

All this reading about challenges has got me thinking…whenever I see a challenge, I also see opportunity. Opportunity to fix the problem and address the solution. Seth Godin, another famous Jewish thought leader, wrote a blog post titled ‘Goals, strategy and tactics for change.’ It provides the perfect framework for me to put my plans into actions, words, that I can then go to others to get buy-in for.

Oh, I also need a team to help me get this done. I can’t do this all alone. We are all created for a reason, to work together and in harmony…Recruiting efforts to begin.

until next time



Jewish Shanghai: The Moller Villa Story

If you plan to visit Shanghai, there is a building that you should not miss. Its official name is Moller Villa, named after Eric Moller, a Jewish resident of Shanghai in the early 20th century. When I had a seventeen-hour layover last week, I decided to stay there overnight—it has since been converted into a hotel. Located on South Shanxi Road in the former French foreign concession area, Moller Villa is a sight for sore eyes. It may seem out-of-place to the virgin traveler. In the midst of modern apartment buildings, shopping centers, and a lot of traffic noise—this villa is a tranquil place of relaxation.

According to local legend, Eric Moller built this Villa for his beloved daughter in 1936 after she had conveyed her dream of having a fairytale castle. Moller was a Swedish-British merchant who first came to Shanghai in 1919. After much success in the shipping business, he became well-known in Shanghai elite circles and a member of the notorious Shanghai Race Club. He invited many different architects to design the Villa to become his own private residence. The end product is a hybrid-fusion style that includes Western and Eastern architectural elements.

The building today still stands in its original condition, protected by the local Shanghai government. At the entryway to the villa, there is a plaque that explains its current status in Shanghai. The plaque states in English and Chinese that it is an “Important Monument under the State Protection.” Not bad for an almost-decade old foreign structure. The villa itself is a mix of browns and reds intermixed with a layered-brick feel. The pointed rooftops give the boxy rectangular structure a much-needed softness by drawing the eyes from the ground to the Shanghai skies. Two traditional Chinese lions flank the front steps providing an interesting mix of East and West styles.

A small garden covers the area to the mansion’s immediate side and back area—easily accessible from the front door and back porch of the restaurant area. A small creek flows through the miniature garden flanked by tall hundred-year-old trees. The wooden foot-bridge takes you from one side of the garden to the other—transporting you through the world the Moller family built.

Once you step inside the main hotel area, if feels as if you are living in Europe. The tall stained-glass windows are covered in nature designs of greens, pinks, and shades of gray and black. Elaborate crystal chandeliers reflect the outside sunlight throughout the check-in area. Lush upholstered couches lay opposite of the wooden check-in area—welcoming guests to a villa fitting for a gentleman and lady. Photographs of the Moller family, his horseracing, and the villa’s stories in Shanghai history line the walls.

Next time you are in Shanghai for a 24-hour layover or longer ;-), try exploring Moller Villa and add it to your itinerary. It is a gem of a sight for the modern age.

Project allofasuddenpartJew: 2013 Recap

As the year 2013 comes to a close, I would like to reflect on the milestones this year for allofasuddenpartJew. From Limmud conferences in Hong Kong and Shanghai, traveling to Japan to visit the Chabad house, and walking around Jewish Lower East Side–I feel I have furthered my understanding of the Jewish people and beliefs.

  • Limmud – A Hebrew word that means learning, I attended my first Limmud conference in Hong Kong and Shanghai. Made a few valuable connections from the Jewish philanthropy and non-profit space.
  • Jewish Japan – Traveled to Japan (My new favorite Asian country) and spent Sukkot at the Chabad House of Tokyo. Many Japanese people are interested in Jewish people. Some Japanese believe they are descendents  of the lost tribes.
  • Melton Mini-School – After an initial Intro to Judaism course at the United Jewish Congregation of Hong Kong, I felt I needed to go deeper. I enrolled in the Melton Adult Mini-School course at Ohel Leah Synagogue and have enjoyed the teachings from Rabbi Oser.
  • Chinese Studies – Continued my studies in relevant topics. I started to pursue an MA in Chinese Studies at CUHK to deepen my knowledge of China.
  • Jewish New York City – Visited NYC to visit Jewish enclaves like Williamsburg and the Lower East Side.

I have to be honest, I haven’t been keeping up with my social media as much as I would like. My social media stats for as of December 2013 are:

  • Blog – allofasuddenpartJew (83 posts)
  • Facebook – page under the same title (480 Fans)
  • Twitter – account under the same title (285 Followers)

Looking forward to 2014–the year of the horse in Chinese astrology. The horse is a highly respected animal in Chinese culture–one that symbolizes strength, agility, and endurance. Even the German carmaker BMW’s brand name in China is ćźé©Ź(Baoma), which literally means treasure horse, contains the character for horse.

Happy New Year 2014!

Chinese Year of the Horse

Chinese Year of the Horse

Brooklyn Hasidics, Jewish Lower East Side, and Rambam’s 13 Principles

Only a few days until Christmas! First and foremost, I would like to wish my Christian friends a Merry Christmas 2013. In addition, I like to wish secular friends from around the world a happy gift-giving holiday. Christmas these days has become such a capitalist tradition, even in China where Christians are the minority.

Now back to NYC….

I made the short journey out to Williamsburg Brooklyn to survey the Hasidic community of NYC. Women wore head wraps and dressed in all black. Men wore black suits and had long curly sideburns. I walked around Lee and Division Street enclave areas and saw lots of kosher markets and restaurants. It was like a step back in time where clocks stopped turning. I would pass homes and the young children would turn to look at me, as if they are wondering what’s she doing here….

After a visit to Brooklyn, I took a Jewish walk around Lower East Side of Manhattan. I stopped at the Tenement Museum and took a food tour–boy was that a great decision. Likely, the best tour I have ever been on. I got to taste pickles, cheese, bialys, and green-tea puff pastry. The guides at the Tenement were awesome and friendly–they made everyone feel at home and super welcome. A bit later, a few friends joined me to walk around a few key Jewish institutions around LES. We met at the Katz’s Delicatessen, a place so famous there were lines wrapped around the next block. We stopped at the Eldridge Street Synagogue right before Shabbat and walked over to the Angel Orensenz Foundation after. Two exquisitely beautiful synagogues in Lower East Side’s Jewish history. My friends and I stopped to refresh at a local diner. I made my way to Jewish Queens later that night–and to the La Guardia airport the next morning.

Last but not least, Maimonides or Rambam passed away today in 1204. He is a famous Jewish philosopher and scholar who changed the course of Judaism forever. It was he who created the Mishneh Torah, the widest and broadest Jewish Law available. It was also he who created the 13 principles of faith of Judaism. If you call yourself a Jew, per Rambam, you should believe in the following: (Source: Wikipedia)

  1. The Existence of G-d
  2. G-d’s unity and indivisibility into elements
  3. G-d’s spirituality and incorporeality (sorry Christians!)
  4. G-d’s eternity
  5. G-d alone should be the object of worship
  6. Revelation through G-d’s prophets
  7. The preeminence of Moses among the prophets
  8. The Torah that we have today is the one dictated to Moses by G-d
  9. The Torah given by Moses will not be replaced and that nothing may be added or removed from it
  10. G-d’s awareness of human actions
  11. Reward of good and punishment of evil
  12. The coming of the Jewish Messiah
  13. The resurrection of the dead

I left New York City yesterday and am now in the southern USA spending the holidays with family.

Until next time, let’s memorize these 13 principles! 🙂

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